if you are ever sad/stressed/anything and you need to vent, my ask box is always open! (you can send fanmail too if you can)
don’t worry, i won’t publish any of these i recieve
IF YOU’RE REALLY HAVING A BAD TIME LEMME BE YOUR EMOTION PILLOW
To my future daughter:
I love my mother, and I hope you love me as well although I know that I will make mistakes, just as she did. I am not perfect, and I don’t want you to think that I am as long as you love me anyway.
I do not want negativity in my home. I grew up with my mother always making negative remarks about her appearance and that hurt because to me she was the most beautiful person alive. I never wanted to be ashamed when someone told me that I looked like my mom, but after years of her telling me that she’s fat and ugly, I began to wonder if she was right.
I’d rather you be fat and ugly than dumb and shallow. Appearance means nothing to me if there isn’t anything underneath the beauty. I hope you come to realize this.
There will come a day when you look in the mirror and wonder what happened to the beautiful girl that you saw the day before. Remember that your reflection cannot show you your worth, intelligence, and depth. A photograph can show only the surface of the ocean, when there is so much beauty once you start exploring underneath. You are an ocean.
I will never judge you for the clothes you wear and the food you eat. I just hope that you’re doing it for the right reasons. Do not eat healthy because you think that your thighs are growing too large if the food disgusts you. Do not wear a sweatshirt to make yourself feel safe when you’re already sweating buckets. Food and clothing does not dictate how good of a person you are.
Learn to write. Love poems mean so much more than a date to see the newest chic flick, and if anyone disagrees, they are not the person you deserve.
Read books. Allow your imagination to grow more and more with every turn of the page. I have learned more about how I should live from the books I have read than the experiences I have had.
Do not do things that make you unhappy. If you do not enjoy sports, please do not join the school team just to impress people. If you don’t like wearing high heels, don’t wear them just because they make your legs look amazing and might catch someone’s attention.
Helping others is a good way to help yourself. If you ever feel upset or useless, go out into the world and do something to make other people’s lives better. Volunteer. Donate. Inspire. You cannot think that you are worthless when what you are doing is worth everything to someone else.
I love you no matter what. I love you even if you don’t listen to anything I say. I love you even if you lie and steal. I love you even if you make a mistake and end up as a mother at 16. I love you if you decide you are my son. No matter what you do, I will always love you, and when you feel like the least desired person on the planet, just remember that years before you ever existed I thought of these few things just because I think that you deserve the world, because you are mine."